tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3075780107713018085.post5940870912631641402..comments2010-02-15T18:14:47.328-08:00Comments on SOS Survivor Blog: Finding Peace: Being Completely Comfortable in Your ShoesBonnie Bazill-Davishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15573912185764760289noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3075780107713018085.post-32706618506796091112009-12-08T06:21:04.936-08:002009-12-08T06:21:04.936-08:00Hi One Survivor,
Thanks - I have enjoyed your fee...Hi One Survivor,<br /><br />Thanks - I have enjoyed your feedback and insights as well. I am so sorry about your sister. I do know what you are saying that sometimes the pain people carry flows into their lifestyle, and provides validation in and of itself. My father could never admit to being a victim of abuse himself, but he was a textbook of symptoms.<br /><br />I am meeting with a cover art designer today to get a book rolling - looking forward to getting the ball rolling.<br /><br />Take care - have a good holiday if I do not talk to you before.Bonnie Bazill-Davishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15573912185764760289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3075780107713018085.post-21927784839422158882009-12-08T04:44:37.432-08:002009-12-08T04:44:37.432-08:00I love your definition of real peace. Those are th...I love your definition of real peace. Those are the things I find to be true in my own experience, also. I truly doubt that I will ever be truly free of what happened to me...in this life. That ultimate healing is yet to come...at the end of time when my Creator transforms me. <br /><br />Helping others means a lot to me. Everything I have been through helps me to be more empathetic of others. I am far from perfect in that, but I try. In spite of my slip ups, I do believe that I helped more than I have hurt. And even when I have inadvertantly hurt others, I have learned from it...and, hopefully, won't hurt anyone else. <br /><br />What a gift...to be validated by your sister. My own sister died as I was regaining memories of my true past. We will never be able to validate each other in this life. Although, the way she lived her life was an indirect validation of sorts...so I am told. <br /><br />Life can definitely throw those curve balls. When it happens now, at least I know what is going on and I have tools to help me deal with it.<br /><br />I have enjoyed getting to know you a little better, Bonnie. :-)One Survivorhttp://asurvivorsthoughtsonlife.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.com